{"product_id":"book-gwt5","title":"Disorganized Attachment","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDo you find it difficult to maintain a successful romantic relationship?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDoes your partner exhibit contradictory behaviours in intimate relationships, stating such things as: \"I hate you, don't leave me\"? Statements that alternate between stickiness and detachment?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDo you nobly strive to grow the relationship, but have been stuck in the same spot for months or years?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAttachment styles are the way we connect with other people. They are generally developed by infants and further refined by children, adolescents, and adults.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePeople who exhibit attachment disorganisation swing from two biological drives whenever the opportunity to attack in life presents itself: the need to belong (to love and connect with others) and the need to survive (to protect themselves).\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eI recommend that you read this book if your partner appears to:\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBe unable to regulate emotions.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eExhibits a strong fear of being hurt\/rejected\/abandoned by loved ones.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBe a chronic and anxious watcher.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAppears to have low self-determination: a sense of not having an impact on the world.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFeel ineffective and helpless in life.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFeel unlovable, inadequate, or unworthy.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHave difficulty bonding, opening up and trusting others.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eShow contradictory behaviour in intimate relationships, making statements such as: \"I hate you, don't leave me!\".\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAlternate between stickiness and detachment.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFortunately, with the right information, it is possible to unlearn bad attachment habits and over time, acquire the skills and reassurance, support and continued safe, positive and trusting relationships that truly help to heal the trauma.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eUnderstanding the wounds of attachment is the best gift you can give to your relationship to finally make your intimacy grow.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"INAudio","offers":[{"title":"Audiobook","offer_id":49416118272304,"sku":"BDgwt5","price":5.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0879\/2784\/9264\/files\/gwt5-Square-cover.jpg?v=1773510184","url":"https:\/\/downpour.com\/products\/book-gwt5","provider":"Downpour","version":"1.0","type":"link"}